Old School BDSM
Learning From The Bottom – UP
It was more than 20 years ago when I began my submissive Training , back in the days when you learned from the bottom, and worked towards the Top. There was plenty of time to explore which direction would best suit your nature, overseen and protected by not just the Rule, but by others in the close knit group, or as we called it – Family.
Read Part 1 MILF Mistress Vivian’s BDSM Training – From The Bottom Up
As safety dictated we met in public – and agreed on a quiet pub, where I waited nervously, wondering worrying about the item he requested I bring, that was now tucked away in my purse.
When I stood to shake his hand, I made my 1st faux pas of many, greeting him as Master. It was also my 1st lesson, given quietly and gently, but with a tone that clearly spoke – a second correction would carry punishment.
The Rules of Submissive Training – Choose Your Words With Care
I would until otherwise directed, call Him- Sir. Sir was mannerly and the proper way to address a Superior, for someone as green as I was. As I tried to apologize, he put his hand over mine and said, you don’t know what you don’t know. Then he looked me in the eyes and said – Now you know. Yes Sir
Good Training Can Last a Lifetime
How many times have I said that to one of my callers? You don’t know what you don’t know. Maybe you have heard me say- Never say you are sorry, it gives them a chance to agree – it is another – etched in my brain expression – carried over from my submissive training days.
She Speaks Softly
You must know the original quote Speak softly, but carry a big stick. In one sentence, Teddy Roosevelt pretty much sums up the style and form of my BDSM submissive training. It is the same approach I use in my real life, and phone sex world – filled with caring coercion, humiliation mixed with humor, and goal orientated guidance offered up by a Superior who truly understands the submissive nature.
To be continued ….
Part 3 Sir’s 1st Command
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